Learn to Talk!

we talk -
1) to know something
2) to make others like/respect/etc us
3) to make others happy.
4) to overcome boredom?


80% (2) .
problem -
1) you miss out on 1. & 2.
2) you subconciously assume that you are inferior and you have to make yourself known to others. That makes you behaviour inferior and other subconsciously percieve that . Complicated eh! so you miss out on 3).

Solution -
focus on 1) and 3) or be quiet 80% of the time.